Wednesday, September 28, 2016

The Hero In The Mirror #13

Learn to L.O.V.E. yourself
(L.earn about yourself,O.pen yourself up to you,V.alue yourself
E.nd excuses, increase action)
Your choices can keep you in the past, boost your present and empower your future- You choose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The Hero In The Mirror #12

Learn to L.O.V.E. yourself
(L.earn about yourself,O.pen yourself up to you,V.alue yourself
E.nd excuses, increase action)
Be Aware of your Self Talk because that sets the tone for how you walk.
Realign it with what you L.O.V.E and you will find the self talk script that will lead you to the change you seek.

The Hero In The Mirror #11

Learn to L.O.V.E. yourself
(L.earn about yourself,O.pen yourself up to you,V.alue yourself
E.nd excuses, increase action)
I heard someone say today" I feel too torn down, to keep it together."
When you learn to L.O.V.E yourself enough, your thoughts about yourself and in general change.
When your thoughts change and the change ensues that ripples into all areas of your mind and body and then your feelings change.
So no matter how far you fall, when your locus of control is your developing L.OV.E for yourself ,nothing and noone will tear you apart, and if you fall apart you will bring it all back together and stronger than before.

The Hero In The Mirror #10

Learn to L.O.V.E. yourself
L.earn about yourself
O.pen yourself up to you
V.alue yourself
E.nd excuses, increase action
When you learn to L.O.V.E. yourself positively in a healthy manner you will eventually learn how much love you have to give and to recognize when you are truly loved..and how much G-d loves you

Wednesday, September 21, 2016

The Hero In The Mirror #9

Are you looking for a breakthrough, a change,to get unstuck etc?
Here are 10 powerful suggestions as how to make that change start NOW
These steps are only for those who feel that they are worth the effort and that the gift of their lives is too important to play small with it
1.Decide wholeheartedly right Now that you want it and are going to commit to it....Now your life has changed
2.Identify the change , breakthrough you want and where you want it.If you cannot, get outside help you are worth the effort
3.Believe in the change you want invest your heart into it .
4. Set up a concrete real achievable plan to reach your goals and shatter your limits
5.Make that sure your actions ,daily rituals ,thoughts and self talk match the change you want even if you dont feel that right now..your lo lishma will eventually become your lishma in other words your role play will eventaully become the game changing reality you seek.Again if you cannot do this yourself get outside help you are worth the effort
6.if you meet a wall make sure your determination and the importance of the change you seek are the sledgehammer that will break that wall or make the wall small enough for you to walk over
7.Pray and be brave
8.Make sure you live in your discomfort zone,unlimit yourself for your comfort zone is a box that will deny you the break through you seek.
9.Get outside help , be it a coach etc or someone who has your best interests at heart and make sure there is follow up to ensure that you have or are breaking through and sticking to the plan that you have set in motion
10. Keep your focus and dont let distractions cloud the vision to the awesome results you will achieve
CHANGE IS SCARY AT FIRST BASE ,CHAOTIC AT SECOND BASE AND EVENTUALLY AN EXCITING HOME RUN WHEN YOU FINALLY SEE THE HERO IN THE MIRROR YET AGAIN

Sunday, September 18, 2016

The Hero In The Mirror # 8

When you put your all into what you do no matter how seemingly mundane, whatever the result ,your light shines. You see G-d wants your heart and when you give your heart, no matter the result your greatness gets a head start.

Saturday, September 17, 2016

The Hero In The Mirror # 7

Celebrate your victories, no matter how small. The more victories you celebrate you are rewiring your mind for success.A funny thing about meaningful victories no matter how small,eventually, they cast a warm light on areas of your life that you previously thought dark, revealing the hero in the mirror that was always there.

The Hero In The Mirror # 6

Don't overly agonize over why people have not acted, reacted etc as you think they should. The hero recognizes that he/she only has control over their response and their perception and with their change in the equilibrium the whole equation can change.

The Hero In The Mirror #5

When you don't compare your life to others and know that your life is yours and your victories are yours no matter what others think of them, you make it a lot easier on yourself to see the hero in the mirror.

The Hero In The Mirror #4

Never stop loving yourself , no matter how much you may dislike some of the things you do.You are always worth loving, from the positive love you nurture and feel for yourself will blossom ,eventually, deeds worth loving .

The Hero In The Mirror #3

The story you choose to tell yourself about yourself will form the pictures your eyes will see.

The Hero In The Mirror # 2

Your eternal unmatched value has been given to you by G-d , untouchable by anyone unless you give them permission through your impaired perception of it.

The Hero In The Mirror #1

Try and find the hero in the mirror , he/she is there , on that you can rely.
Don't give up on finding the hero in the mirror.If you cannot see him/her you are not looking hard enough.
Do what you need to do to find the hero in the mirror, learn,strategize ,stay open , keep your definitions fluid , never be complacent, always reevaluate.
Change whatever you need to , your thoughts, actions, reactions,mindset etc, keeping on doing it until you recognize the hero in the mirror.
When you realize that the hero in the mirror is you, you will start to see the everyday heroes around you.
Seeing the hero in yourself and in all those around you ,you may start to understand that a hero is not he/she that is above and beyond others..it is he /she in any circumstance that makes the choice not to treat life casually and in so doing no matter where they are,or what they go through they are never casualties of life but champions of their own circumstances.